Life with a 2yrs old kid

Feels like my son has changed completely. Looking back at pictures when he has a few months old or around 1 year and I can barely recognise him. He has started to be independant and now we can hardly reason with him. Maybe it’s just my perception. Was I this way? I get a humbling feeling and wonder how my parents put up with me.

His language and speaking abilities have improved. I often ask him questions so that we can start a conversation. What is your name? His response is something like Me/Mine. Then I tell him his name and he acknowledges it with a smile. Where is your home? To my surprise he knows the direction even from a lot of different places, he even knows how to go the closest store.

Some of his best answers to my questions are something like “No like” for when he doesn’t like something and “No want” for when he doesn’t want something. Which is often.

He loves to watch cartoons on the phone. We try to limit it but it’s the only time he’ll stay put for more than 1 second. He’s also taken a like to the green color and will show us everything green around us. All the other things are not-green. And if you didn’t know that, he will repeat it 1000 times over and over. Slowly he learns other colors but he loves green. Maybe because it’s spring and everything around is greenish.

He’s a daredevil. He likes to speed his little motorbike and has no regards to safety. He’s also developing mechanisms for dealing with frustration. It’s not uncommon for him to hit objects with his fists, and if we’re around – even us. While his hits are more like pokes, do watch out for your eyes. I did see a few green stars accidentally.

Kids have one job – to get into trouble. And we really have one job too. To get them out of trouble. Knowing this might give you a breath of fresh air. Acceptance that this is the way. The way of a parent. And if other parents managed to survive this, so can you.



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  1. 💜 I AM Parenting My Mom EveryOne; at The Moment SHE!!! is Refusing to talk with Me, HER!!! First Born

    …💛💚💙…

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  2. “Kids have one job – to get into trouble. And we really have one job too. To get them out of trouble. Knowing this might give you a breath of fresh air. Acceptance that this is the way. The way of a parent. And if other parents managed to survive this, so can you.”
    💯 the truth!!! Sometimes parents forget this. Frustrations mount and kids who know no better but to make constant mistakes are tried as an adult.
    It’s our job to guide and help our kids learn from their mistakes, and if any parent is constantly frustrated with their child.. just think to yourself.. how did your parents cope with you?
    Toddlers are messy and all they know is havoc, leave them to enjoy. Until they’re old enough to change, it’s a beautiful transitional period. Don’t spoil it for them, be their protector.
    Great job H Radu!

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  3. “Kids have one job – to get into trouble. And we really have one job too. To get them out of trouble. Knowing this might give you a breath of fresh air. Acceptance that this is the way. The way of a parent. And if other parents managed to survive this, so can you.”

    💯 the truth!!! Sometimes parents forget this. Frustrations mount and kids who know no better but to make constant mistakes are being tried as an adult.

    It’s our job to guide and help our kids learn from their mistakes, and if any parent is constantly frustrated with their child.. just ask yourself this.. how did your parents cope with you?

    Toddlers are messy and all they know is havoc, leave them to enjoy. Until they’re old enough to change. It’s a beautiful transitional period, don’t spoil it for them.. be their protector.

    Great Job! 👊🏾

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  4. It’s lovely to read about someone who knows what it means to be responsible for a child, for their care, their development, their happiness. Too many people have children because they think it’s the “right” thing to do, or because they have some vague notion that it will all be sunshine and roses. Then all the kid stuff happens and they realize it’s hard work. Children need to feel loved and wanted. When they aren’t….problems develop and people suffer. I believe your son must feel very loved and secure. Bless him and you.

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    1. Thank you for your kind words. You are right, parenting isn’t easy and you won’t get much appreciation from your kids. So if you see a dad/mum tell them they are doing a great job. It might just make their day brighter.

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  5. Your writing is so very interesting. Not exactly not much appreciation, But when children grow up in a good way, we have peace of mind which goes a very long way as well as they carry forward good behaviour to the next generations. The society benefits and the world needs good citizens. And parents are Blessed 🙂

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